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Friday, June 15, 2012

Halloween Memories: My Last Trick 'r Treat

     Recently, Justine from Justine's Halloween asked me to share one of my favorite Halloween memories, and I promised that I would. Thank you Justine for asking, and for giving me a wonderful idea—I would like to collect Halloween and Halloween related memories. (Halloween related memories might be a visit to a haunted attraction during the off-season or a spooky memory at any time of the year). Not just mine, people I've interviewed, or those in the Halloween and haunted attraction industry; I want to collect memories from anyone that is willing to share. So if you have a memory, or several memories for that matter, you would like to share and that you fancy seeing published on a blog, won't you share it with us? Also, feel free to include pictures with your story. I would be glad to post it here, as written, or even re-write it into a small story for you. If you are so inclined, email me at Hallowdean@gmail.com and let's start this collection together.

     Each of your memories will be spotlighted as a post unto itself, to be discovered and enjoyed by lovers of this special season. You'll also have the opportunity for free promotion of your business, home haunt, blog, etc. What better way to share the spirit of Halloween? 

My Last Trick 'r Treat


Trick or Treat by Rado Javor


     I wish I had a very young childhood memory of trick 'r treating, perhaps one from the age of eight or earlier, which some hold on to and recall vividly when asked about Halloween. During my childhood, in my area of the Bible-belt, Halloween was never celebrated as particularly special. We even had children in school whose parents refused to let them celebrate "the wicked pagan festival." 

     Halloween was just a time for children to dress up, beg for candy, and go back home to swim through their sugary treasure hoards. Adults rarely dressed up, threw parties, or decorated their homes. Oh sure, many carved out some jack-o'-lanterns and hung a few cobwebs—and if you were lucky—someone would play a spooky cassette tape near their door. Maybe that's why my trick 'r treating memories run together, all except the last time I joined in.

     I must have been eleven or twelve, so I was one of the biggest kids out that year. There were a few teenagers who were up to no good, but some of us were still adhering to the ritual with excitement and...perhaps melancholy. My parents never warned me that I was getting too old, I simply knew that this year was my last year for trick 'r treating. 

     I was standing on the corner of the subdivision, and it was a huge subdivision at that—with so many blocks to explore that one barely had time to visit two to three streets. The leaves were heavy on the ground—as they tend to be in Tennessee during that time of year—the chill was light, and the sounds were so...happy. As I stood there with my bag in my hand, dressed as a pale-faced vampire (my favorite Halloween character), the children ran by me—laughing and screaming; and for the first time, I felt like a guardian more than a participant. The younger children smiled at me and the teenagers avoided me, or at least I imagined they did. 

     I came to the realization that the end to trick 'r treating was simply a transition—into a bigger Halloween adventure. As I walked up and down the streets, alone, collecting my candy—the world was perfect. In my mind, the adults seemed aware of my euphoria and they wore special smiles, just for me, as I was showered with treats. It was as if they were bidding me farewell, and I welcomed their adieus with an outstretched container—a container now consigned to hold more than just sweets.

     The following year, decorating our home and visiting local charity haunts became the start of the new adventure. Like any worthwhile adventure,it continues to grow, and you, my readers and guests, have become a special part of the adventure with me.  

     A warm thank you to Gabriel, Countess VonRauber, and Halloweenman666 for being my newest followers.


Trick or Treat © 2012 Rajo Javor

12 comments:

  1. Thanks for the shout out. :) This post is so beautifully written. You really painted a picture of your last time trick-or-treating. Yeah, there are some people around here who tell their kids that Halloween is evil, etc. When we were young, one of my friends knocked at one of those people's doors while trick-or-treating. My friend happened to be dressed as a devil. She said they opened the door and just looked at her with horrified expressions. :) She was maybe in third grade and didn't get what was going on. She must have just thought that her costume was that scary! Haha!

    Oh, I'm one of those people with the cassette player on the doorstep. :) Actually it's a CD player by now. I try to hide it behind a chair, so they can't tell where the noises are coming from. I dress up more to hand out candy than most of the trick-or-treaters do! I'd like to think the kids remember my door.

    It's actually more fun to celebrate Halloween as an adult, because now I can try to make the holiday magical for other people!

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    1. Thank you so much Justine. I would love to have seen their faces as they opened the door to a tiny devil!

      I completely agree with you, Halloween only becomes more magical with each year. And I'm sure the children do remember your home—even those that don't wear a costume!

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  2. Wonderful post...
    Can't wait to see this 'collection' grow.

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    1. Thank you Marrow! It might be a silly idea but I hope it grows as well. Most bloggers have probably posted their memories already, and some may not be comfortable sharing their memories with complete strangers.

      I only know that when others tell me about their Halloween memories, it only increases my enjoyment of the season; if that is even possible!

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  3. Such a wonderful memory. Nothing quite compares to the nostalgic feel of childhood Halloweens.

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  4. Another great post! I need to dig out some old pictures & share them. Too bad Mom & Dad didn't take more pictures back in the 70's...

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    1. Thank you Brian! Now that mention it, I need to dig some out as well. I know I have a few around here. I'll scan them in and share them here :)

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  5. I wish my Halloween memories were as sweet as this one. One Halloween, when I was living in Sleepy Hollow, NY, I went to school dressed as Jason from Friday the 13th. Us kids (2nd-3rd graders), were all wearing some costume or another as the school was going to parade around the town. A friend of mine asked me for my plastic blade, while he gave me his ray gun. I forgot to ask him for my knife back and while parading around the town a couple of kids yelled how Jason didn't use a gun and how I was stupid. I smile at the memory now, but at the time I really did feel stupid for not getting my knife back. Jason doesn't use a gun. Ever! :)

    The idea to share Halloween memories is pretty interesting. I might share a better one, soon.
    Thanks for sharing your memory.
    Cheers!

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    1. You're welcome Gabriel and thank you for sharing yours! I'm glad you can laugh about it now because it's pretty cute lol.

      If you ever decide to share more memories, I know we will all enjoy them.

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  6. This is a great memory for you to hold on to! So often, we look back on something ending as a bittersweet memory recalled with nostalgic regret. So I like that what you've shared isn't simply a story of a spent youth, but one of transition from a child's perspective of All Hallow's Eve into the traditions that shape our adult appreciation for this joyous holiday.

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    1. I'm so glad that you appreciated it sir, and thank you for your kind words.

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